When it comes to O's it is a topic near and dear to my heart, ok maybe further south, but you get the importance.
I am in a very orgasm discussing kind of mood after Sir gave me THEE most incredibly amazing spectacular indescribable fucking epic kind of orgasm I believe anyone has ever had last night. For all you perv's reading this I will give you this short story in another post ;) this post is more for guys to understand a females orgasms. From my point of view. I don't know how much of this applies to every woman, but I'm betting a lot applies to most woman.
For me, only with my Sir, orgasms come easy and often in multiples or they "run together" in a way. There are different types and many different intensities. (It's interesting to note, if you have not read my other posts, that I never had a single orgasm before Sir, with another man or alone. We have a few theories on that :) )
There is clitoral orgasms, which mostly run the same intensity and are easy to do, with just a little of the right kind of friction. For me, I have not discussed this with a lot of woman, so it may be the same or different, I'm not sure) the easiest way to get a clitoral O, gently, too much pressure hurts, not enough does nothin. Gently rub the clit against the bone underneath it gradually increasing speed. Works everytime.
Now vaginal (or g spot, if there is a difference I am not aware of it) is a harder to get to, and varies greatly in intensity. In general I can almost always get off this way at least once everytime we have sex. Harder/faster is all it takes. The intensity comes in based on the environment and pre game activities. The more aroused I am, the stronger it will be. As well as the environment. If I am not concerned with any other ears hearing me, if I am still sort of dressed in something sexy, a porno maybe playing in the background, if Sir talks dirty (he is quiet though, so I have been known to run a xxx dialog through my head) but when he does and he is really into it, or desperate to fuck me like it's life or death, all of that increases the energy, or environment for me and I will have a stronger orgasm. Other things that help here are anal play, if he has a dildo or finger up there while he is fucking me. Spanking during sex, vibrators, role play, the right music (keeping rythem to it also, as it climbs, I climb) attention to my nipples, and French kissing... The #1 thing for me though, and I've learned this goes for the guy or the girl, how into it the other person is. The more "oh my god I have to fuck you now" the orgasm substantially increases.
Another type of orgasm - the mental one. This one I have not had often, but it has happened. Though typically it needs a bit of physical stimulation to "finish it off". But I'm talking about girls that finish just by giving a blow job, or just watching another couple who are really going at it. Reading a trashy book or story, something that turns me on soo much, I have a small release. It's not huge, but it does give me a post orgasm feeling and I am not sexually frustrated afterwards. At least not as much. As I said above being more "into it" helps, and though I have not had a mental orgasm from giving head, ever since I got more into it and started enjoying it myself I have come pretty close a time or two to this O.
Last, the real shebang. The orgasm that mixes all of these together. The recipe is as follows:
Frustration: getting and keeping me turned on with no release for an extended period of time.
Comfort: knowing I can let go
Pre game: or foreplay. But not too much or I will finish too early. Getting close and stopping is ok.
Energy: the other party being very turned on also
Build up: same as pre game but while having sex, get close and stop or slow down, repeat.
Clitoral: with or without anal stimulation as well, but the clit is the important one (very important)
Vaginal: fuck me desperately.
This is best achieved for me when I am on top. The clitoral stimulation is perfect, the vaginal is deep and just the right angle. The thought that he is watching my whole body, and enjoying what he sees. He also has easy access for nipple stimulation, and even better is if I'm on top but he is the one in control of our movements, grab her hips push a little further in and move her body up and down your length.
The results are earth shattering for her and well worth the effort put in.
(Another interesting fact about me, on top I squirt like crazy, but never have any other way)
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